Story within a story
http://www.akkarbakkar.com/women/widows-are-human-too-and-have-needs/
Go through it once.
I just want to share my opinion about this story and people commented on that post.
This story is about a widow who is a mother and a working lady too.
"I am a 40-year-old widow with a 20-year-old son from a small town in Assam, India. And I have sexual desires that's too much for you to digest."
She was the motherless fourth daughter from a very conservative family. Her father was a police officer who had cancer. She was a brother who was a year younger than her and his brother used to get all the attention. She had a real troublesome and tough childhood.
Her adulthood was more pathetic and early marriage spoiled her dreams and hobbies. She had a pathetic,alcoholic,drug addict husband. After few years they were separated and finally her husband died due to aclohol consumption.
But during her childhood, she promised "One day in front of a calm river in the summers and while staring at the rising sun, a 10-year-old promised herself that she would become a good mother.
After her husband death, she got the infamous societal tag "widow"
According to our society, widows can never be with any other man. No her need can't be sex.
On this post, people these days those who are quite active in social network(but not in real world) commented "I am a man and unmarried. I need sex too... Why we men are not writing such articles?"
I wish this man could face the same being the fourth daughter of that man.
Sexual need is a common human need. From a teenage girl to a widow, even a man can also have such need.
If a teenage girl have sex with more than one guy, then she is prostitute. If a widow woman want sex then she is characterless.
Why?
These are just tags "widow", "divorcee", "unmarried". And sex is human need. Why these tags are applicable for women only? Why not for men?
Go through it once.
I just want to share my opinion about this story and people commented on that post.
This story is about a widow who is a mother and a working lady too.
"I am a 40-year-old widow with a 20-year-old son from a small town in Assam, India. And I have sexual desires that's too much for you to digest."
She was the motherless fourth daughter from a very conservative family. Her father was a police officer who had cancer. She was a brother who was a year younger than her and his brother used to get all the attention. She had a real troublesome and tough childhood.
Her adulthood was more pathetic and early marriage spoiled her dreams and hobbies. She had a pathetic,alcoholic,drug addict husband. After few years they were separated and finally her husband died due to aclohol consumption.
But during her childhood, she promised "One day in front of a calm river in the summers and while staring at the rising sun, a 10-year-old promised herself that she would become a good mother.
I didn't know what a 'good mother' meant but I was pretty sure it was the opposite of all that my sisters and I had been through in our childhood. "Yes she a 'good mother'.
After her husband death, she got the infamous societal tag "widow"
According to our society, widows can never be with any other man. No her need can't be sex.
On this post, people these days those who are quite active in social network(but not in real world) commented "I am a man and unmarried. I need sex too... Why we men are not writing such articles?"
I wish this man could face the same being the fourth daughter of that man.
Sexual need is a common human need. From a teenage girl to a widow, even a man can also have such need.
If a teenage girl have sex with more than one guy, then she is prostitute. If a widow woman want sex then she is characterless.
Why?
These are just tags "widow", "divorcee", "unmarried". And sex is human need. Why these tags are applicable for women only? Why not for men?
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